Mother's Day is almost here again. What a wonderful holiday created here in WV to treasure and remember our mothers. And while it bring fond memories of my own mother to mind, the simple truth is that every year for 6 years now it also makes me sad.
My wonderful mother is alive. I can call her about a quick fix or complain my recipe did not come out correct. BUT...but for many people that is simply the case. Ever since I began photography I have heard people say, "I wish I had more pictures of my mother." or " I wish we would have had a family photo done before she passed." In these instances I feel overwhelming sadness that as a whole we mothers do not get in photos as much as we could or simply should.
So what can I personally do about it as a photographer you may ask? I always ask when shooting a child session if mom or dad want in one. What can you do about it? Say YES. Or even get in snap shots when things are happening around the house. As a mother myself now I try to be in images for my daughter.
I know what your thinking, I've made those excuses too. "I'll do it later...I not even dressed nice...and the 100's of other excuses we as mothers make everyday when a camera pops up. But next time your cousin is taking pictures of the kids and says to smile, hold your head high and lean forward with a grin knowing you are preserving memories for your child for long after your gone. Want to be even more generous for your child's memories down the road, have a photo done just of you or you and your spouse.
To end my rambling today, I encourage you to be in the moment with your children and families, but also be in the photos.
A quick pict. after a session I was shooting of my daughter.
My husband snapped this last Easter.